Rules of Attraction

Jasmine Chabria brings you ‘six sexy guides’ to help lovelorns discover what the opposite sex wants

What the Female Likes

1. Hairy Love Tales
She places her gaze first at your facial hair (and not your chest hair). A well-kept stubble, suggesting that you’re a kind gentle caretaker does turn her on rather than a beastly hoarse beard. She prefers short hair on the man’s head rather than long, straightened hair (she doesn’t want competition nor does she want you to look like her. Few such as Farah Khan like it). She prefers the guy’s arms and legs to be unwaxed, yet not a hairy jungle. A man’s arms are an integral turnon for women, so guys keep them clean topped with average hair.

2. Where are the ABS?
She does like a fit, muscular look on the man who has strength. However, the extremes are a strict turn-off for her – she doesn’t want to date or mate a hulk, nor a toothpick-y size zero.

3. Get the Vaseline!
The size of the lips don’t matter much to her (yes, true, here is one thing where size doesn’t matter). But cracked dry lips of the ‘he’ disappoint her. You could apply Vaseline, but avoid a glossy look, or it would back fire.

4. Odours and Fragrances
She loves the fragrances of strawberry, mint and chocolate. Sweat odours are a strict no-no.

5. Eye-View

She loves him to have big eyes. It makes her think she can decipher him and rate his honesty level as well as health. She doesn’t like extremely well shaped eyebrows on him (again, stop competing with her).

6. Height Matters
The tall man provides a sense of security and comfort for her. Also, she finds his tallness very attractive and she sees it as a ‘protector’ quality in him. She loves to be treated like a princess.

 

 

 

What the Male Adores

1. Hairy Searches
He loves long hair (even shoulderlength hair does turn him on). Long locks tell the world that you’re a sensual woman. You take care of your hair because sensuality and looking sexy is important to you. The message you’re telegraphing is that you’ll take care of him in ‘that way’ too. However, an unwaxed gal does put 99 per cent of men into depression. Skip those parlour sessions if you want to play revenge with him.

2. Where are those Curves, Baby?
He likes a fit and healthy girl. This is because he wants the girl to be able to reproduce. Talking of curves, who doesn’t know that a girl’s hour glass figure is like the man’s elixir. Now do you get why Playboy mints money?

3. Lips Don’t Lie
He does love full lips as he thinks they deliver sensuous, satisfying kisses. Also, lips that wear lipstick are instantly noticed by him. A research showed that lips without makeup are noticed by men after 2.2 seconds.

4. Don’t Use ‘HE’ Perfumes
Girls love the fragrance of ‘He’ deos and perfumes and end up using them. That’s a faux-pas. The logic is that men use them to attract you. You need not use them. And he loves ‘for her’ perfumes better than ‘for him’ perfumes so you need to use them, and he shall fall for you.

5. Eye-for-an Eye
He likes wideset, elongated eyes. These make him think you’re youthful and naughty. Also, wide eyes add a beautiful sparkle to the face. Make up can enhance the size of your eyes. Thick eyebrows turn him on more than extremely thin eyebrows.

6. Height and Heels
Her height does matter for him. He likes her to be between 5’3” and 5’8”. Sexy heels and stilettos always turn him on. They aid in enhancing his arousal level. Both subtle colours as well as bright flashy colours arouse him.

 

Volume 2 Issue 4